我的BFF

昨天接到好朋友的來電
她甚少來電,所以每一次接到她的電話,都會特別的開心


前一陣子,心情有點漂浮不定
給她打電話沒有接聽
給她發短信也沒有回覆
說真的,我真的很生氣
氣得我真想破口大罵!
那時候心想,她或許開始覺得我厭煩了,
所以不想再聽我嘮叨,不想再跟我分享心事了
因為這樣的想法,失望的心情就浮在胸口,很不舒服


還好,昨天她給我撥了一通電話
才知道自己錯怪了她
原來那一陣子她發生了一些事情
所以沒有辦法接電話回覆短信
說到這裡,我感覺好慚愧好內疚
想說聲對不起,原來是我想多了,誤會了


所以說,不僅僅是情侶需要坦白,
朋友這嘛事啊,有時候也真必須要坦白以免誤會多多的
要是因為這些無聊的芝麻小事而淹沒了一段友情,實在可惜!



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在我的字典里,好朋友的定義是
不用常常見面,但一見面就會嘰裡呱啦的聊個不停
久久見個面,感覺還是依然溫暖,因為熱情的友誼不會因為時空關係而生疏
不一定要替對方做很多事情,但所做的事情卻能讓你感到貼心
在你需要幫助的時候,需要傾訴的時候,好朋友懂得鼓勵,讚美,支持,關心,照顧對方
好朋友是可以分享生活的喜怒哀樂,特別是你難過傷心的時候


而當我們長大了,也才是知道誰是你的真正好朋友
在你20幾歲的時候,大家還single還沒有另一半的時候,
當然都堆在一起吃喝玩樂,感覺自己相似好多好朋友圍繞著你
一丁點的孤單感覺都不會察覺
可是當你越過30歲的那一刻,
當身邊的朋友都有了男朋友女朋友的時候,當大家都各忙著自己生活的時候
你才會驚覺,其實身邊的好朋友都所剩無幾
也在這個時候,你才會猛然發現誰才是你心中的好好朋友


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這一篇,是我花了一段時間才把它完成的一篇文章
由10幾個列表縮短了以下的這幾位
看透人生,也看透誰是關心我的人
所以,我好想為我的這一些BFF留下一些足跡回憶


第一位BFF上場的是:二姐 Lim Yen Cheng 


我叫她二姐,她叫我大姐
我們在念sunway college的時候認識的
有看過我之前文章的話,都大概知道我是透過一位中學朋友認識她
我們認識都是因為我們那時候有共同的愛好
因為那時候我們都瘋狂喜歡“年少”組合


二姐的性格很絕強,脾氣沒有很好,說話也很直接,也可以說很尖略
亦或許我也是一個坦率的人,所以我們都特別合得來
我們說話從不轉彎抹角,有什麽就直說
要是說錯了,過一陣子,忘了,又演變會一對好朋友


念sunway的時候,我們都念不同的科目
可是卻形影不離
大家下了課,必定約在圖書館或foyer見面
聊天,打瞌睡,溫習,吃飯,逛街,什麽都統統一起來
因為這樣我們就成了非常要好的姐妹
即使大家出來了社會工作,我們還依然很要好
這樣的友誼真的得來不易,所以我一直都非常珍惜


給二姐的話:
很慶倖一直以來有你的陪伴
希望10年後,20年後的我們,還是一對要好的姐妹
答應我,我們不要改變ok!
很愛你!





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而第二位呢就是我的開心果:Stella Ling 


我都叫她Stella姐姐,雖然她的年紀比我小
可是因為個子比我大,細想也比我成熟,所以她愛叫我Ivy妹妹
也這樣,我好像就多了一個姐姐的疼愛
我們雖然上一樣的college,一樣的大學
可是那時都并沒有熟絡,直到畢業了,聚會上碰面,才展開了好朋友的關係


Stella的性格很開朗,是個開心果
有她在的地方就有好吃的東西
我欣賞她的樂觀,欣賞她的率直
和Stella聊天可以從悲觀里跳出來,可以讓不好的心情變好,也可以很快地恢復自信心
Stella常常都對我說
Ivy你要對自己有信心,你長得漂亮,有一個很好的家庭,很多人都很羡慕你,所以應該好好珍惜自己
因為Ivy你就是你,是獨一無二的
常常因為她的這一句話,我都會覺得特別窩心


雖然我們沒有常見面,可是我們的友誼並沒有因為距離而被拉倒
久久的一通電話,都還是可以那麼八卦,那麼親切,那麼sweet


給Stella姐姐的話:
我很慶倖自己可以把你放進我的的BFF list里
謝謝你常常借出你的時間,你的耳朵來聆聽我的不愉快
更謝謝你的言語讓我從不開心的圈子跳出來
真的很感謝!Muackssss!!!



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第三位呢就是:Kay Luk Mummy


Kay是我在美國的housemate
話說回來,確實很感激她
因為要不是她,我想我在美國的那段日子必定很難挨
因為她比我大丁點,也很照顧我,所以我都叫她Kay Mummy


Kay是一個文靜兼沒什麽自信的女生
很多時候都必須要鼓勵她很多很多她才可以有自信心
我很喜歡她,因為她很善良,心底很好
所以我常和身邊的男生說,娶到Kay是他們三生有幸啦


和Kay在一起很自然很輕鬆,因為他就是一個簡單不計較的人
對人也特別的貼心關心
總覺得,有他這位好朋友真的是我榮幸!


給Kay的話:
謝謝你無時無刻在我需要你陪伴的時候陪在我身邊
我相信幸福的日子將會離你不遠
提起你的自信心,然後快快遇到真心對你好的男人
我衷心祝福你幸福快樂





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第五位的是:Siew Yong


Siew Yong其實是我的同事
算算下,原來我們都認識4年多了
剛剛認識他的時候,沒那麼討好
因為他很嚴肅,說話很尖略
所以我那時候常常會覺得不好受
可是相處久了,才發覺原來他很善良很有義氣
也慢慢地,我們從同事的關係演變成好朋友


Siew Yong是個能幹以及聰明的人
因為他的社會經驗比我多,所以他常常都會指導我給我幫助
我這個大頭蝦,真慶倖常常有他在身邊的指點
而在私事上,他也給了我很多的關心以及勸告
我慶倖這一陣子難過的心情有他在我身邊
要不然,我肯定難過得更要命!


給Siew Yong的話:
很多感謝的話語都不知道從何說起
要是我們分開了到別家公司,希望我們依然還一對無所不談的好朋友




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第六個值得提的就是:Charles Chow


他是我中學就認識的一個老朋友
Charles的脾氣不很好,得罪他肯定不好過!
可是他卻是個說義氣的朋友,至少他對我是很有義氣的
不開心,需要人解悶的時候,
找他,他不會拒絕,而且會陪你陪到底


他是我的酒"卡"
是我的part time司機
是我的寂寞好拍檔
想當初我們年少輕狂的那段日子,真的挺懷念
現在長大了,各忙各的,少聯絡的我們慶倖依然還是好朋友


給CC的話:
我知道有一段時間我們都好像遺失了對方
感謝你還在努力地挽回這一段有友誼
謝謝你在我失落的時候付出你的時間
既然大家已是10幾年的朋友了,那麼就讓我們繼續做對50年后的好朋友吧!




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第七個的是:Kwang

Kwang是我大學的好朋友
我們一起上大學,一起拿同樣的科目,一起過了大學那段美好的日子
kwang有時候很奇怪,我常常覺得他有女人period的習慣,呵呵!
不過確實他還是一個講義氣的朋友


喜歡和他相處,因為他也是一個不計較很隨和的朋友
特別喜歡和他唱K,因為我們唱K特別投緣
很多時候他會被我的言語氣死,常常都在罵我kanasai!
不過我相信他還是很enjoy和我在一起的時間


給Kwang的話:
希望你可以快快美國回來,然後我們可以來個Duet!
我等不及了!




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坦白說,好朋友不需要很多
一兩個已經很足夠了
更何況我現在有7個!
所以我想我是幸福的,因為除了家人,我還有好朋友的疼愛




希望多年后的我們還是一樣老樣子,
說話大聲,不注意儀表,可是永遠笑的那麼開心
無論許久不見后再聚也不會覺得尷尬
依然那麼輕鬆自然,會為彼此傷心心疼


來!為我們的友誼幹一杯!


Friendship 4 4 4 Ever!


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Listening to I wanna be Strong by 方皓正

我和狗狗的故事

昨天早下班
回到家,換了一身的運動服,帶上Ipod Shuffle + 毛巾
就到家附近的公園跑步
最近我都儘量讓自己一個星期至少跑半個小時
出一身的汗水,可以減輕壓力
人也會感覺輕鬆,也比較健康
最重要的還是可以瘦身。哈!



這個傍晚,和平時一樣,一個人的活動也只能維持在家附近的公園
今天的uncles aunties 特別多,而且還多了很多狗狗呢
我看見5只非常可愛的狗兒們
有咖啡色的,黑色的,白色的
它們5只像是遇見老朋友那樣,見到面就聞聞彼此,然後搖搖尾巴
雖然不做聲,可是卻好像略懂大家的心底話一樣
我一路跑,一路看著他們,
這麼溫馨的畫面,我看得甜在心底!
真想給它們大大的擁抱!


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從小媽媽就很不喜歡我們接近有毛毛的動物
所以就導致了我不愛動物
你可以說,有毛毛的動物我都一律不會靠近


到了20幾歲都還是有一樣的毛病
直到進入了30歲左右,認識了前男友
丁,他很喜歡狗狗
Berry是他的第二隻寵物
是一隻六歲大的西施
身上帶著淺咖啡色加白色的毛
是個可愛但不很乖巧的狗狗


記得第一次見它的時候,很害怕
丁因為我害怕所以常常把它關起來,不讓它有機會碰到我
時間久了,對它的時間長了,
也漸漸地對這個小傢伙有了感情,不再害怕,還有點愛上了它
我很喜歡看它對著我搖尾巴,要我給它吃零食的樣子,超可愛
我很喜歡有它作伴的日子
丁不在的時候,Berry會陪我看戲,陪我賴在沙發上,陪我玩,給我發嘮叨
那時候我也開始察覺,狗狗真的是人家口中的人類好朋友


和丁分開后,我依然想念Berry
想起它的時候,心情特別的難過
懷念和它窩在床上的日子,懷念我進門的時候它歡迎我的樣子
所以呢,想它的時候就看看它的照片,或是看看之前錄下的video來安慰難過的心情



Berry,你好么?
我和想你!


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感覺自己和西施比較有緣分
遇過很多不一樣的狗狗,但還是比較偏愛西施
現在的力,
家裡的那隻狗狗也是西施
它叫Zoi D,很特別的名字吧
Zoi D來自泰國,是一直非常聽話而且有少少笨笨的狗狗 
它的頭髮捲捲長長的,幾乎看不見它的眼睛
毛色是非常淺色的咖啡加白色



我和Zoi D的相處時間沒有很多
因為它大多的時間都是和力的妹妹貼在一起
可我特別喜歡喂它吃東西,因為看它興奮的樣子真的很過癮
還有它被我追逐被我嚇的樣子,可真的都逗得我不亦樂乎
不可否認,Zoi D 是一隻非常討人喜歡的西施狗狗



我希望接下來的日子,可以有更多的時間和Zoi D玩樂!
也希望可以和它留下很多很多的回憶!


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以前還沒愛上狗狗的時候
常常都不明白爲什麽有些人可以愛狗狗愛得那麼瘋狂
可我現在終於都明白了
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狗狗是人類最好的朋友
也可以是你最好的人生夥伴
因為它們會無時無刻地為你付出它們的愛,它們的一切
要是你家裡都有一隻狗狗的話
那就請你多給予它們關懷愛心吧
養一隻寵物不簡單,不是擺在家裡像花瓶那樣
你開心的時候就摸摸它,不開心的時候就放它在一旁
它們的生命,也是非常需要我們的愛心關懷的

要是你還沒有ready去關懷一個生命的話
那就請你不要跟著別人有我也要有的心情,去糟蹋一個那麼可愛的生命吧!


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我就是這樣開始愛上了狗狗


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Listening to I won't give up by Jason Mraz


藍色今天

甚少有monday blue心情的我
今天竟然讓自己blue blue了起來
想必一定是weekend hangover吧


週末
終是特別的期待
星期五下了班,去谷中誠逛了一下
換了洗頭水和眼線筆的牌子
希望可以讓自己變得美麗少少
 然後就回家溫習書本
12點鐘眼睛捆了,上床會周公
喜歡在臨睡前,有人給個good night kiss!
甜得讓我笑眯眯入睡 *傻笑中*


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星期六,逛街日
因為想給自己買條新裙子出席這個星期五的 Alumni Dinner
所以打算這天給自己好好的血拼一番
結果,該買的沒有買到
反而買了兩條褲子,以及三條皮帶
女人啊,花錢裝扮還是最本事!



這次選的顏色和我平常穿的有點不一樣,有點另類,有點大膽
確實是想給自己換個新Look!
黃色,花紋的應該會有另一番味道吧
好期待穿上它們哦!


晚飯后,去了一直很想去的WIP喝幾杯
最近口味變了
以前愛啤酒愛得要死的我
竟然變心,愛上了紅酒白酒


這一天,這一晚,我很開心,同時亦感到幸福 *幸福暗笑中*


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星期天
休息休息,溫習溫習
晚上和家人來了個溫馨快樂的晚餐
我們選擇了“迎 客樓”
特別喜歡它的黃酒醉蛋
濃濃的香酒味,實在讓我多吃幾口飯
實在對我的肚腩覺得愧疚啊!


晚飯後,和家人逛逛街,就結束了這個美麗的週末


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我,好期待下一個週末的到來
Always look forward for a better tomorrow!








請賜我“信心”

 

想問,
我之前的自信心去了哪裡
信心沒了,心情就會變得特別的忐忑


Time to have a break?!?!



The trip to MYANMAR

2010 January, I went to the golden land, Myanmar together with my family.
Sorry about the late posted about this trip.
I actually have been wanting to write this post for a long time, but keep delaying it because I not yet find the right tone and angle to fully express what I wanted to talk about this trip.

Today, since the workload is not so busy, so I decided to sit down here and start the story telling in Myanmar.

When my friends knew about my trip to Myanmar, they kept questioning me why am I going there, is there any good things in that poor country, and bla bla bla. I actually have no idea at all about this country except the famous pagoda. So, I guess this would be my main gateaway reason to Myanmar to get some answers.

OK..cut the craps, let the pictures tell you the story about this country ~~~~


As usual, Mcdonald breakie is always the MUST when I went to the early flight. It can definately cheer me up from the sleepy mode :P


After 2 hours and 30 mins flight, we finally arrived at the Yangon International airport.
Got our money changed, and started the 5 days 4 nights journey.

 

We had our first lunch before checked in the hotel.
Personally I dont find the first meal was good.
The soup is a bit oily and tasted like bean which I dont really like it.
The fried rice is tasteless and no spcial ingredients. You have to add the 4 extra side ingredients for flavoring。
Lastly, the redbean dessert cake is too sweet!


Luckly, the mananger and waiters in the restaurant are very friendly and enthusiastic。



It is normal to see the street selling everywhere in the town.
They sell paintings and postcards the most.

After our lunch, we checked in the hotel.
Kandawgyi Palace Hotel is a 4 star hotel.


Loving this hotel so much!
Clean, big, comfy bed, and with good breakfast.



Unlucky, the hotel is under renovation.
We couldn't enjoy some activities in the hotel like swimming.
As far as we know, they have a big swimming pool inside the hotel. 
What a waste!


After an hour of resting and cleaning up, we visited the Shwedagon Pagoda in the centre of the city.
It is suggested to visit the pagoda in the evening to avoid the sun burn (Myanmar has a crazy hot weather in the afternoon)


You are not allow to wear your shoes/slipers once you stepped into the building.
Strongly suggest to wear your slippers in Myanmar as many places are not allow your shoes in (Slippers are more easy to take off :p).



There we go, Shwedagon Pagoda


Finally, my another chop on my travel passport!
Yes! Another travel achievement in my life!


Shwedagon Pagoda is probably the most famous tourist attraction in Myanmar.
This Pagoda is the synonymous with Myanmar and consider the oldest pagoda on Earth.
It is covered in 30 tons of gold with a larger number of jewels buried inside the pagoda.


Shining buildings everywhere around the Pagoda.


Aha! What a creative idea! 


They are the volunteers for the pagoda, helping to clean and swipe the floor everyday.


You can see the jewels and golds on the top of the pagoda from this picture.
It is really amazing!


Some night view shots inside the pagoda.


The lightings are pretty!


Oh! Time to say ByeBye to Shwedagon Pagoda.


Hungry and tired! Had our first dinner in Myanmar at this beautiful restaurant. 
Dont you think it looks more like a pagoda rather than a restaurant? 


The waiters and waitresses are all with their traditional customs.


They serve buffet style with lots of variety local and Thai food.


This is Thai noodle soup with its condiments.
I had 3 plates of this! Taste real good!


This is Myanmar traditional dessert ~~ Khok Moke
My mum likes it very muchie!


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Early morning after the heavy buffet breakfast at the hotel, we started our journey to BAGO, to visit Kyat Khet Wine Monestery for adoring the receding of Buddha preaches by monks.



These are the daily foods that monks have everyday.



There are more than 200 monks inside the temple, from age 10 plus till 50 plus.
Everyday during the lunch time, they will Q to get the free food from the locals. 



After the temple visiting, we went to the Bago market.
Nothing much there, but just to see the local market lifestyle. 


It is common to see the ladies or even man with the powder touch up on their face.
Guess what is it? It is actually their sunblock.
Are you dare to put it on in Malaysia?:P

 
Lunch! Big prawns were served! YUMMIES!



Another highlight of the tour is to the Kyaikhtiyo, one of Myanmar's landmarks.
This place is famous for its precarious position and religious importance.
And it is also where the famous Kyaikhtiyo Pagoda (Golden Rock) located.


To reach the Golden Rock, you have to climb up to the upper area by foot, where the walk distance is approximately 4km (1 hour). It was a long and tiring travel!

But if you wish to take a more comfortable approach, you can sit back and be carried in sedan chair, like my dad did. it cost about USD 30.00 person.

 

Sweat, sweat, sweat a lot under the sun!
Me and my brother took about an hour and a half to reach the destination.


YES! We arrived finally!


On top, we can enjoy the beautiful sunset :)

 

There you go! The Golden Rock.
It is a small pagoda (7.3 metres (24 ft)) built on the top of a granite boulder covered with gold leaves pasted on by devotees. 

The one night stay in Kyaikhtiyo was not very pleasant.
The bed was very hard, the dinner and breakfast were very bad, and the overall enviroment was bored and dirty too. 

Look at our room of the night!
Arghhh! Didnt have a good sleep man!



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As not a pleasant stay, we woke up very early the next day. 
Cant wait to check out from this room!


Almost missed the sunset!


My first pic with my daddy and mummy on this trip :P


Nice cool weather!


To be honest, we cant wait to go back to Yangon, cant wait to leave Kyaikhtiyo!


Dad, mum, sister and aunty took the sedan chair along the Kyaikhtiyo journey, only me and my brother walked with our foot!


Some shooting to cheer ourself up during the tiring journey.



Yes! Back to the city finally!!!!


One the way back to the city, we stopped by the weaving factory to see the local village lifestyle. 
The old building behind me is actually a primary school.


The weaving machine



Cute and adorable twins kids!


After that, we stopped by Shwethalyaung Buddha to take some photos.
The Sleeping Buddha, is the second largest Buddha in the world.
It has a length of 55m (180ft) and a height of 16m (52ft).




And then, the Chinese temple for 15 minuates.



Here, you can see the white elephants.
White elephants are the traditional symbols of power and prosperity, and linked their appearances to the country's improving foreign relations.


 The tiring day ended at the huge Marble Sitting Buddha.


The first family photo!
Wish to have lots of trips with my lovely family every year!


Another spot you have to go in with the barefoot.


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Finally came to the last 2 days!
After the breakie at the hotel, we arrived at Thanlyin (Syriam) across the Yangon River via Thankyin Bridge which built by the Chinese Engineers.
It is a good opportunity to see the countryside around Yangon.


Look how dirty is the river!


The main tourist attraction in Thanlyin is the Yeylel Pagoda, a pagoda on a small island in the middle of the river.
It is popular place of pilgrimages.


After that, we drive back to Yangon, and continue the journey at wood carving workshop.


This is an interesting spot where you can find lots of different and funny wood carving like animals all over the place. 



Another local market to visit, Bogyoke (Scott) market.
This is where we get the cheap souveniers like wood carving, magnets and jade bracelets. 




Chilling at the hotel after our dinner. 
And counting down to go back Malaysia!
Nyek!


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This is the only good food I found in Myanmar.
The spicy seasoning they put in the soup is so great!



The environment of having breakie inside the hotel is comfy and great too!


This is a highly recommended hotel in Myanmar (except the on going renovation process)


The middle man is our local tour guide.


OKie! Flight MH741! Time to go home!
Bye Myanmar, and I believe I will not come back again!


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Little notes about the trip:

We do not enjoy the trip so much because the place is very boring unless you enjoy the temple visits. You are not allow to have any phone calls, internet services in the city (except the Wifi in the hotel). The food is not tasty and special. And the overall environment in the city is dirty and polluted.
Me and my family were actually wanted to go home after the 2nd day!

Yet, I feel more happy about my life after the trip, after seeing the poor people in Myanmar.
Comparing with them, I found myself and my life are being too comfortable and pleasant.
Guess, I should stop my complains but appreciate with what I have in my life!



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Listening to Moves like Jaggar by Maroon 5